Yeah that's a difficult situation and I can totally see where you're coming from. I've had this policy of giving everyone a go, but this weekend we came up against an opposition that looked like ours - 7 kids 4 blokes. They put us in first having won the toss, one thing led to another and my older son who, if you gave him the choice of sawing his finger off with a rust razor blade or umpire, he'd go for the rusty razor ended up umpiring at the bowlers end. Needless to say our best batsman who was looking to occupy the crease for the whole match had pad/bat combo and my son gave him out surrounded by about 6 players all screaming OWZAT!!!! in his face. The bloke was not pleased claiming it hit the bat first. My son is not an umpire. Anyway they bowled us out cheaply 120 odd, but we had some good bowlers and I went for an approach of - if you're economic and looking like you're going to get a wicket you stay on. I ended up using 3 bowlers. One 19 year old I mistakenly let bowl 24 overs, my son bowled 12 in two spells and an old finger spinner bowled the rest. All three of them bowled very tightly and the two seamers took 8 wickets. But two little kids at the end batted superbly and took all afternoon and we couldn't bowl em out and they won with just a couple of overs to spare. I didn't even bowl myself. But - like your game it did feel like that there was a lot of blokes there that had paid £12 to have a day in the field - especially the LBW bloke.
Back at the clubhouse he'd been back before me and mentioned it to everyone and when I got there one of the clubs senior blokes said 'How'd it go Thommo'? so I mentioned it and he said 'Well... if he don't like it - go and play football, it happens... that's cricket for you'. Which I thought was true. It's quite tricky this captaincy lark. Hopefully I can get back to a situation where everyone gets a go at bowling this week? I guess that scenario that you speak of - sitting there knowing you're not going to bowl comes down to making a decision about improving your batting and also accepting that it's not going to go in your favour every week if you see yourself as batter as well? Or you simply have to get that much better as a wrist spinner so that they can't leave you out of the equation. Or as I do - try and enjoy your fielding?
I think that sounds fair enough Dave. If you've got a chance of winning a game when you're struggling all season, you gotta go for it all out.
That said, 24 overs is crazy, especially for a seamer. I can't believe the rules let you do that.