That does sound like atrocious management and captaincy. Tough to be on the receiving end of that. Does your club have a 2nd XI and why weren’t you picked for that if the 1s captain doesn’t want to give you a chance?Man, I am fuming and have to get this off my chest.
Firstly a brief recap. So at the end of last season I left my club, due to not being given enough overs. The last match I played last season was a 40 over league game, I wasn't given any overs in that match and decided enough was enough, and told them I'd be looking for a new club.
Fast forward to February 2024, there's a new first team captain and he texts me to say he wants me back to play for the first team this season and I'll "definitely get a bowl". I agree to rejoin on this basis.
Today it's my first match for the first team and involves a three hour round trip by car, it's an away match. I like to get there early so arrived at noon with a 1pm start scheduled.
At about 12:20pm the captain arrives and the first thing he says to me is "I'll try and get you on to bowl today". I am thinking "WTF, the only reason I'm playing is because you texted me in February and said I'd definitely get a bowl".
Needless to say, we win the toss and put them into bat. I didn't get a sniff. We bowled them out in 24 overs for 70 but my mood is worsening. By the end, I didn't even bother running to middle to congratulate the bowlers although I was happy for them getting wickets. It's just, I have seen this movie before.
I didn't get a bat either. The same people who did the bowling knocked off the runs for the loss of 2 wickets.
That comment "I'll try and give you a bowl today" has stuck with me all day and indicates to me that the captain doesn't think my bowling is very good. I just don't think that is an acceptable thing for any Captain to say to any bowler. It's all I could think about on the drive home.
I will probably have a few beers this evening and tell them to eff off again.