macca
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Re: Wrist Spin Bowling (Part Two)
They dont change usually and go through the rest of their lives like it. It runs in families as well. My kid was a victim of his own success and something i never expected to come up against because he is generally not good at any sports other than cricket and then only his legspin stands out.
Something has to be done when your kid is being sledged by fellow team mates. You are better off going through official channels and with the support of other parents. I blew it by getting up the coach whose initial response to me was nothing followed by " what do you want me to do about it ? " Thats when i snapped and reminded him how his kid was protected from sledging only 6 months prior. My use of some basic unprintable anglo saxon has given him some moral high ground in his eyes but i make no apologies for that.
Did not affect my son who put in his best bowling effort ever and was absolutely superb. As richie benaud would say " that really was a marvelous effort that"
someblokecalleddave;378025 said:Yeah Jim's reponse to this was as you'd expect from anyone with any sense of civility, but the one thing I feel Jim is possibly wrong about is the fact that those people then feel something if they are seen to fall flat on their faces. The incident my kids endured was that every mistake they made was picked up by one kid who then had to say something about the mistake, the comments being vitriolic and demeaning rather than supportive. The bottom line being that this kid doesn't like playing with my kids because he feels he is a far superior player and that they (My kids) lose the game for him and the other 'Good' players. This kid then has the responsibility of opening the batting and went for a golden duck. Yeah the kids obviously gutted, but he's gutted for himself not for the team - he doesn't give a s**t about the team if he's not integral to the result. The rest of the team say nothing about the Golden duck and the kid walks off to silence and condolences from his mates, father and the coach. Everyone knows that if my kid was to turn round and say 'What the **** was that all about you useless ****' Not that my kids swear it would then escalate into a full on fight, cos this kids got a chip on his shoulder the size of Ayres Rock. The net result will be bad feelings between the kid and mine and my kid being the new kid on the block would sooner leave the team than play under that kind of atmosphere.
They dont change usually and go through the rest of their lives like it. It runs in families as well. My kid was a victim of his own success and something i never expected to come up against because he is generally not good at any sports other than cricket and then only his legspin stands out.
Something has to be done when your kid is being sledged by fellow team mates. You are better off going through official channels and with the support of other parents. I blew it by getting up the coach whose initial response to me was nothing followed by " what do you want me to do about it ? " Thats when i snapped and reminded him how his kid was protected from sledging only 6 months prior. My use of some basic unprintable anglo saxon has given him some moral high ground in his eyes but i make no apologies for that.
Did not affect my son who put in his best bowling effort ever and was absolutely superb. As richie benaud would say " that really was a marvelous effort that"